“Unlocking the Hidden Potential of High School Students”
TEDxWilmingtonLive: Age of Amazement
was held Saturday, April 28th, 2018
at Wilmington Friends School MORE INFO
After weeks of writing, memorization and practice, my TEDx talk felt as ready as it would ever be. It knew the words by heart, and had given the talk dozens of times with no script. As I got ready to set foot on stage at the dress rehearsal on Friday, I was comforted by the classic advice to nervous speakers everywhere, “Once you say your first line, you’ll be all set.”
That was wrong.
I started off strong, reciting my lines and telling my stories until half way through the talk I froze. I forgot how the story ended. Well, I kind of forgot how the story ended. Mostly I was just panicked that everyone was watching me stand on stage and forget my talk. That sent my mind into a loop as I continued to draw a blank. Eventually, after the audience clapped for encouragement, I just started saying random words, and got back on my feet, leaving out a meaningful conclusion to my story.
Luckily this was just a dress rehearsal and the audience members were ten of the other speakers, not a full crowd. Phew. The first piece of feedback: “Have more fun.” The second: “smile more.”
No one mentioned the freeze up. Later people told me that it happens to everyone. Even the most seasoned speakers. But as I went home that night and thought about the big talk the next morning, I couldn’t help but remember that terrible feeling of standing there frozen on stage.
On Saturday morning, I thought about my goal for the talk, and set the intention to have more fun and smile. Hopefully the words would follow.
When it was my turn on the red circle of the TEDx stage, I stepped up and smiled. Looking out to see my family and a welcoming crowd. And in that moment, I gave my talk. I absorbed the opportunity and felt connected with the audience. When I walked off the stage I felt a giant weight off my shoulders as I unleashed an idea that I hope will resonate with many others.
TEDxWilmingtonLive: Age of Amazement // Saturday, April 28th, 2018 // Wilmington Friends School